November 20 2018     /     7 notes    /     Source: divineninelover     /     Permalink
Anonymous Asked
Did any of you struggle with a close family member who was ignorant to Greek life or didn’t support it? Usually my brother is my number 1 fan but he found out I was on line and now he’s not coming to my show or supporting me in anyway and it’s kind of heartbreaking to the point I thought I was going to drop.

divineninelover:

What a trifling brother.

–Uncle Rashid

Yeah, I did & do. When I hinted to my parents and my aunt that I wanted to join a sorority, they threatened to cut me off financially. They didn’t come to my show & they even stopped talking to my sister for 2 weeks after they found out she came. It’s rough but like my aunt said to me in a rage, “if you’re so sure you can’t go the rest of your life without joining that org, then you don’t need anyone’s approval of your grown *ss decisions”.

May 03 2018     /     45,316 notes    /     Source: odinsblog     /     Permalink

I agree with what white guy said and all that jazz. However, the idea of a white man correcting a Black person’s opinion (no matter how wrong) on an intra-community issue regarding a Black man in what I’m assuming is a mostly Black space makes me hella uncomfortable. That’s peak white privilege – Black people could never come into a white space and feel so comfortable to speak so freely. Also there clearly were people who should have been able to check her before this white guy ever opened his mouth. But I mean go awf I guess.

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April 10 2018     /     496,330 notes    /     Source: alxbngala     /     Permalink

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April 06 2018     /     3,611 notes    /     Source: jehovahhthickness     /     Permalink

ebonia20:

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hayabusahime:

flatbootyjudy:

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ladyfatmouse:

jehovahhthickness:

jasisababe:

firsthousesaturnian:

jehovahhthickness:

Tell the truth.

Why are y'all single?

Because I’m too afraid of confessing to my crush and I’m not cute nor beautiful.

Because I’m mean as shit

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Because I attract people who only want a doormat and uhhhh that ain’t me

Because I learned how to be alone and now I don’t know how to stop being alone

Cuz I pick the wrong people and it turns to shit in the end so I’m saving myself from the emotional distress

Because for some reason, only married and taken men approach me and I’m know I’m not side chick material…. Also I have anxiety and I can’t approach men. 😢😧

Cuz im still poor and broke who still lives at home with mom and dad at 31. Plus I’m socially awkward AF.

Because I realized I am better of alone and not interested in being in a relationship

Because due to my Asperger’s Syndrome it is hard to pick up on social quest so I wouldn’t know if someone took advantage of me or not. And I am socially awkward and lonesome.

^^^

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March 17 2018     /     223 notes    /     Source: c-bassmeow     /     Permalink
March 14 2018     /     1,557 notes    /     Source: jehovahhthickness     /     Permalink
I gotta question.. if ya boyfriend kept cheatin Would u rather give him 50 chances or give 50 other niggas 1 chance?

honeybunsforeveryone:

jehovahhthickness:

deadmugen:

jehovahhthickness:

deadmugen:

rainbow-unicorn-monkeyballs-pt2:

notoriousthings:

jehovahhthickness:

treygotguap:

jehovahhthickness:

Give 50 niggas one chance for $800, Alex.

What… so u would fw 50 niggas? Instead of working It out wit ya dude

How is that wild?

Why would I deal with a cheating ass nigga ON PURPOSE?

That nigga wouldn’t give u half a chance if u cheated on him.

Right? Fragile masculinity wouldn’t let him

why can’t yall just be in open relationships n just be honest with each other y'all act like it’s so hard

It’s not that easy. And not everybody is polyamrous.

If people want monogamy, they should have that. The same goes for polyamorous/open relationships. 🙄

then why ppl cheat

You’re asking the wrong person because I’m not a cheater and I would never entertain that thought.

People cheat because they’re not appreciative of what they have or not honest enough to end a relationship instead of letting that mistake bubble to the surface, causing more pain that needed.

Cheating isn’t a one time thing. There has to be other steps involved in that whole process. And polygamy isn’t going to solve anything because cheating is just sleeping around and having a side piece. Polygamy is a personal, loving relationship with other people who are honest with each other. Just like a relationship!

January 13 2018     /     2,531 notes    /     Source: vincentvanleggo-deactivated2018     /     Permalink

pyramidsandpistols:

chrysotherapy:

pyramidsandpistols:

kimreesesdaughter:

cognacunbound:

When your homie only likes dark skin chicks

I feel like someone gone find this problematic but I’ll go ahead and say it’s wholesome anyway

This is a start.

Maybe yall just live in a state thats not really blacc cause in atl darkskin women get “🤤” over like any other blacc girl.

I live in ATL (& I’m 100% sure @kimreesesdaughter lives/has lived in ATL as well so she can also speak on that if she chooses), and I will definitely tell you right now, as a dark skinned woman, that is not true at all. You may see a few of us that get talked to and acknowledged as beautiful, but that only bc there are too many Black people in ATL for that not to happen. Colorism and people (of all genders) seeing light skinned women as inherently more valuable than dark skinned women is rampant in ATL, and it is actually worse here than it is in a lot of places I have lived in. I really need y'all to stop speaking over dark skinned women when we tell y'all our perspectives based on our lived experiences. Now I’m done.

Well you right about all the blacc people in atl 😂 and what do you look like

Whatever. Reread my post and delineate where I made such an assumption. Or don’t. I don’t care to argue with you.

January 07 2018     /     11 notes    /     Source: divineninelover     /     Permalink
Anonymous Asked
Who's the target audience for a probate show/new member presentation? Some people feel like neos should spitting info, others might feel like too much of that would be boring for the GDIs in attendance. What makes a probate good? Is it a lot of info spitting or more entertainment (steps,strolls,greetings,etc.) who's the target audience here?πŸ€”

divineninelover:

This is an excellent question indeed.

It depends on the traditions of the chapter and the rules of the organization.

First and foremost, check with the rules of the org.  There are some things that some orgs do which are forbidden in other orgs.  There are even things which might have been done just last year which are no longer allowed this year.

The graduate advisor would know for sure.

Some chapters on some campuses almost exclusively come out and sing.  Some groups do no singing, but do a lot of greetings.  Some groups almost purely step and stroll, and some groups do neither.

In terms of a target audience, again, that depends on what your org’s rules say.  I know of some orgs for whom the coming out show was exclusively for members of the chapter and no one else.

Now, I can tell you what I personally enjoy.  Take it with a grain of salt, as I am older than most of the readers and have particular tastes.

I don’t want to be standing around for a long period of time.  If it’s a long show, I would rather be seated.

I want to hear line names and introductions, but not lengthy ones, nor ones where the neo is all hoarse and screaming and doesn’t know how to project.

I don’t want to hear mumbling.  If you mumble, I will know you don’t know your shit and I will clown you.  Enunciate.

I want to hear you recite your founders and the purpose of the org.  I also want to hear your charter members.  I truly am not interested in anything else that’s not traditional for your chapter.

I WANT TO SEE STEPPING.  I want to hear traditional chants and songs.

I want to be impressed by the outfits.  

And I do not want to see any inkling that any hazing has occurred.  Showing how “hard” you went in your process is dumb.  Show me, instead, how you have been transformed for the better.

That’s my two cents.

–Uncle Rashid

I was just having this conversation w my LS after watching all the trifling probates at our school last semester. I’ve only been a member of ΖΦΒ since 3/31/17 so I haven’t been to too many probates as a Greek but I agree with all of what you just said about your preferences. In addition, if your line is spitting info, it should sound like ONE line not 5, 8, 15, whatever number of people on the line. No one can hear that way. And if no one can hear you do whatever you’re doing, whether it’s stepping or spitting history or singing, then it’s a waste of everybody’s time.

December 25 2017     /     19,453 notes    /     Source: jedi-tatertot     /     Permalink

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girls in STEM fields, reblog if you agree

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November 13 2017     /     12,060 notes    /     Source: 6lacksoul     /     Permalink
loverandsex:
“taint3edcakes:
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“bixbyuniversal:
“Millie Rock
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^lmaooo shut the fuck up πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
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Lmao bye
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So who’s that white woman on the left? I’m asking for a friend
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An underage girl.

loverandsex:

taint3edcakes:

im-a-deceptikhan:

bixbyuniversal:

Millie Rock

^lmaooo shut the fuck up 😭😭😂😂😂

Lmao bye

So who’s that white woman on the left? I’m asking for a friend

An underage girl.

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Couldn’t risk it.

didn’t realize they change colors. now I know o gotta wish.

THIS SHIT IS REAL I GOT THE JOB I WAS NUTS ABOUT BC I REBLOGGED THIS YESTERDAY
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July 07 2017     /     33,030 notes    /     Source: denverdeathgrip     /     Permalink
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“ gastrogirl:
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“ My wife is trying to start up a bakery which would specialize in alcohol-infused pastries (up to 5% alcohol by volume) in a smaller college town. Of course she’ll also offer more traditional...

fortheloveofsandwich:

gastrogirl:

denverdeathgrip:

My wife is trying to start up a bakery which would specialize in alcohol-infused pastries (up to 5% alcohol by volume) in a smaller college town. Of course she’ll also offer more traditional cakes, pastries and pies too, but she thinks alcoholic products will make her really stand out.

She’s had a hard time getting start-up funding from banks and decided to try crowdfunding. https://www.gofundme.com/green-fairy-pastries

Rewards include: recipes, 1-on-1 cooking classes (in person or over webcam), and even food shipped to your door. 

If you can’t afford to contribute but still want to support a small strong-black-female-owned business, please like and share.

Just passing this along from one of my followers. Love to see new, small businesses - especially by women! Take a look at check out how to support!

So I don’t normally share these types of posts, but obviously y'all are a bunch of food enthusiasts and I’m thinking some of you would maybe enjoy alcohol infused foods. Her page even mentions sandwiches. Can we help this nice lady out?

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July 07 2017     /     4 notes    /     Source: sheabutterbitch     /     Permalink
Anonymous Asked
I could totally see you with that piercing like YES!✨ and if you're comfortable enough you should DEF post some pics β˜ΊοΈπŸ’–

sheabutterbitch:

Yeah I’m going to get it! I currently have my nipples and septum pierced, so after this one I think I’ll be done lol

June 19 2017     /     152,511 notes    /     Source: deadmugen     /     Permalink

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deadmugen:

deadmugen:

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I just got hired, reblog this to manifest the job u want into reality

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